It's hard to go through something that changes your life this much. To have everyone you know disappear on you after they were a "WITNESS" to the hell you were going through was devastating. It was a very frightening time of my life. Luckily I met a lot of great people throughout the following years who have become some of my best friends. I learned to forgive and let go of the pain I felt over the loss of my previous friendships...
It was one of the few times I was feeling incredibly positive during my whole journey and I realized I have a lot of people I needed to forgive.
I wrote it for myself and for other people who might need to be reminded that they also need to forgive... I found it's truly the only way to have peace!
It's not easy, but once you do you will never feel better in life!
The day he passed away it was very hard for me. It really brought me back to when I was diagnosed and the fear of losing my own life and the fear of losing those I love while I was still so sick and unable to comfort them. I once again was confronted by my mortality face to face!
Ultimately this was my way of coping with losing My Boy (MAX) and accepting my situation and crying out, please God, "SOMEONE HELP ME!"
This song is mostly about my battles with PTSD..."THE DARKNESS"...At this point I think I had come to understand all I had been through a little bit better and I saw how in all honesty I had been blessed and saved for a reason...yes I had my fears imagined and my mortality confronted. I lost friends and I have pain every day! But, I am alive and happy...in the song when I say, "YOU saved me from the dark"...I'm referring to my Faith and my true first love my Lord and my God...Jesus Christ! For all the right and wrong in me, He saved me from The Dark! :)
All I went through, and all I go through...to all that I am right now...that is, "THE TRANSITION"
Things felt pretty dismal...I was deep in the darkness, broken, scared and frustrated, feeling like no one understood what I was going through! All I could do about it was "SCREAM"
This was the point when I was starting to feel connected to the world somewhat again and I realized that there wasn't really anything I can do except recover and get better.
Chemo and radiation had wore me out but here I am recording a song! I poured all of my emotions into this track, it was the only way I had to fight back against the encroaching darkness at that point!
I'm a fighter, I have been my whole life...and this song was my determination to FIGHT against the darkness that was slowly consuming me...it beat me down first and in return I gave the darkness a beat down of my own with, "HIT YOU WHERE IT HURTS"
Recording all of these songs was very cathartic for me and the realMYSTERY for me, as I disovered...was simply, when will this finally be over? I just wanna know I'll be here for those who need me! Especially my amazing Wife, Mother and friends!
In the end I found that being diagnosed with BRAIN CANCER at 30 is a complete life changer and how it all works out is truly a "MYSTERY"